But being hard to get is definitely a game and I think it totally depends on the type of person you are.Each individual has a different threshold of “hard to get” that they are willing to tolerate.You know pretty quickly if someone is into you or if you are into them.
Ultimately, I think there is a general set of baseline rules that most people follow – like being polite, funny, respectful – and then the rest just falls into personal expectations.” There was a clear divide here.
Two out of three of the 20 – 23 year olds said there is nothing appealing about someone being “hard to get.” David, 20, clarifies, “It makes them seem conceited and uninterested.” Nate, 30, weighs in with the younger crowd on this one, stating that “nothing” is appealing about a girl who is “hard to get.” He advocates the “straight to the point” approach: “I am always one who is aggressive and goes after what I want.
This time, I went straight to the source for the answers to what, if anything, is appealing about “the chase” when it comes to texting, what the game is about, and how to play.
Five guys, ages 20 – 30, opened up about what goes through their minds before they hit send.
Chasing a Russian lady, you have strong feelings for, is the last thing.
Most likely, there are at least ten admirers who are chasing her.
Look for the gifts she will definitely like, do not skimp and do not save time, buying an expensive but tasteless trinket.
In fact, all you need is the sincerity of your own feelings for her in order to come up with a perfect gift.
Do not show your increased interest, and merge with the crowd.
Stand aside, show you dominate the meetings, and make her value your attention.
I think these rules are also reflective of the relationship you have with someone.