Inside my Conscious Dating Programs, I share studies from Biological Anthropologist Dr.
The bottom line is so few people out there actually know their Non-Negotiables, so they make a lot of poor dating choices when it comes to choosing a quality mate, thus end up in a lot of short-term relationships.
The first time I ever saw a six second Vine Video on the Internet, I knew that our society was forever changed.
One of the biggest things I teach my clients is to know your dating Non-Negotiables with a capital N.
These are also known as the “deal-breakers” in a relationship.
What is needed here is to come across as someone who is interesting and fun to be with after dating for a month.
After two people decide they want to spend time together in a dating context, usually after about 1 month of dating or perhaps 2 months into a relationship, they embark on stage two.I feel two things could be working here to make this happen.First, the desire to quickly ‘win’ the hand of a guy or girl supersedes the entire idea of building the foundation of a relationship.Many of my clients have spent decades creating the “perfect” partner in their minds.Some of them get so specific on surface criteria (height, weight, eye color, car they drive, income level, what kind of music they like, etc.) that I know they have a slim chance of meeting this person unless they actually build them in a factory.No longer was a normal two-minute online video good enough, a video only 6 seconds long will do just fine.