It may be better to talk to her first, see if she warms up to you, and ask her out. Are you only chasing a co-worker because it’s convenient?
Now, if she’s made it abundantly clear that she likes you, you can proceed with minimal risk. Or do you legitimately feel a strong connection with this girl?
If you think she’s worth the risk and your intentions are healthy, go for it.
But keep in mind there’s a whole world of women outside the workplace. You should strive to be your most attractive at all times.
But in a corporate or business environment, you have to proceed with caution.
It gets trickiest when the two of you are on different tiers or if you’re in a direct superior position. Has she tried to start conversations with you often?
However, they can be a useful litmus test and influence your decision to move things forward.
If she never talks to you or acts cold, your advances may not go as smoothly as you hope.
If your decision is to go for it, then I’ll show you how to maximize your chances of success. Answer these three questions: How much do you care about this job?
Understand that if something goes wrong it can make things awkward at work.
” Everyone will tell you to “never fish off the company pier”. Dating a co-worker is a touchy and a potentially dangerous route.