Stay away from asking any controversial questions about religion or politics.
If you are not comfortable talking about yourself at first, direct some questions to your date. Many people enjoy talking about themselves, so your date will appreciate the fact that you seem interested in him.
You can ask him what he does for a living and about his hobbies.
Don't stress out too much before your big date because you will only make yourself more nervous.
Remember that the man you are going out with is probably a little nervous himself.
Katya Gordeeva began writing professionally in 2009.
She has had several news and feature articles published in "The Chronicle," "Northwest Indiana Times" and "Gary 411" newspapers.You may have been completely against attending a singles party or dance in the past, because you felt it would make you uncomfortable. When we’re breaking out of old habits, we’re often re-parenting ourselves, so be gentle. She created the company to bring singles together to find love.We all know the only way to get rid of the fear is to dispel it though, so go with a friend or someone you trust and see what it’s all about – you’ll probably be surprised! She enjoys contributing to the blog to let others know that they too can find lasting love as she did: In 2006 she met her loving husband and in 2008, together they were blessed with a beautiful baby boy.Gordeeva is pursuing a Bachelor of Arts in public relations from Purdue University Calumet. You want to meet the right person, but you’re too scared to do anything about it. As a shy person you know only too well how your brain freezes as you scramble to think of something to say.They want to shake your hand but you know it’s cold and clammy and probably even trembles. You fall apart as soon as you’re asked what you do for a living. Shy people do succeed both in meeting new people and forming lasting, happy relationships.