Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist and chief scientific adviser for Match who worked on the study and analyzed the findings, said the facts are part of a larger trend where women are “piling into the job market, gaining economically, and gaining sexually and socially.”“Men say that feminism has really made dating easier, safer and more enjoyable for them,” Fisher said. And what I think is going on is these people want to get to know every single thing they can about a sweetheart before they tie the knot,” she said. I guess you know a lot between the sheets, you know, you learn a lot.



Whether it’s the sentencing of criminals through neurolaw or searching out the bases of spirituality through neurotheology, the neuroscientific gaze appears to be limitless.
Even that butterfly-inducing experience more commonly known as falling in love has gone under the scanner.
Indeed, by today’s standards some of our ancestors’ ideas on what purpose the brain fulfilled err on the absurd.
Take the Grecian philosopher Aristotle for example.
Without muddying the ancient thinker’s herculean intellect, his understanding of the brain was a bit off par.
In Aristotle’s opinion, the brain acted as vent for the heat created by the heart, much like a car radiator works.Here we chat to the eminent anthropologist Helen Fisher and learn how brain science is being used to explain another awe-inspiring corporeal condition; the act of falling in love.Ever since the dawn of recorded history, successive civilisations have been completely fascinated with the 3lb of cerebral matter housed between our ears.Among single men ages 18 to 70 , the national survey released last December found 95 percent are in favor of a woman initiating the first kiss and also asking for a guy’s phone number. Fisher called this “fast sex, slow love.” “What we’re finding over the years, and we find it this time, too, is a real extension of the pre-commitment stage. Sex is part of the puzzle.” Fisher said those findings on the “commitment-lite” or “pre-commitment” stage of a relationship — where “you know what you have, you think you can keep what you got” — led her to do another study with and married people.But only 29 percent of women actually initiate the first kiss and 13 percent of women ask for a man’s number. Marriage used to be the beginning of a relationship; now it’s the finale. They’re courting first by getting to know somebody. One of the questions they asked 1,100 married people was, Would you remarry the person you’re currently married to? However, Descartes reasoned that the seat of our intelligence and emotionality, the “mind”, existed outside of our bodies and communicated with our brain by way of the pineal gland.