There’s no wishy washy bullsh*t here like “be more confident” or “talk to more girls”.Just 20 proven steps you can start using right now to attract the girl you like and make her your girlfriend.You want to touch them, smell them and, if you’re me, bite their ear.
Here are some of my protips on how to make it work and when to know that it’s over.
What matters before you move in together is that you’re ready because if you aren’t, you may not experience the symbiotic bliss that Natalie and I do, then maybe you will get an impacted bowel because you don’t feel close enough to talk about uncomfortable shit (literally).
We’ve been at this business of art for nearly six years, which means we’ve said a thing or two about a thing or two: like how to be a queer woman who meets, desires and romances women or otherwise-identified humans out there.
So we thought it’d be cool to compile a Lesbian Dating 101 for you, comprised of all the fantastic how-to guides we’ve published over the last many moons.
In 2016, she was nominated for a GLAAD Award for Outstanding Digital Journalism.
You’re about to discover how to get a girlfriend by becoming her obvious choice, so the girl you like chooses you over all the other guys chasing her.
We’ve also published a lot of relationship advice on how to be gay and a lot of topical personal essays and reports from the field — about lesbian tinder, being bi on OK Cupid, dating while sober, dating on the autism spectrum, what you learn from moving in with your girlfriend, among so many others— but this post is all about the how-tos.
(If you’re looking for breakup advice, you better hold your horses for the next issue of Better Together! Are you pulling batteries from the remote control to put into your vibrator?
I’ll admit, sometimes my favorite part of past relationships have been the distance, but sometimes the distance was what broke us up.