Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.
In relationships where the man is foreign I noticed that they mostly speak his native language.
Although they live in Japan and sometimes even have children together who also speak Japanese, the foreign guys don’t / can’t speak Japanese.
I also experienced that they’re unable to do anything on their own.
When I ask them about how they got their cellphone or credit card they just answer they don’t know because their wife did it for them.
For foreign women it’s a completely different story.
Japanese men seem to expect certain things from a woman.Japanese guys are often too shy, scared or whatever and the majority of Western men is only interested in Japanese / Asian women.As a result it is tough to find a date as a foreign woman here in Japan.For some reason (maybe through the consumption of too many Hollywood movies) Japanese women think that foreign men are like that!They’re not afraid of showing their feelings in public or telling their girls flat out how they feel about them. The extreme version of this is known as “gaijin hunter” and some will do everything for the sake of having one of those adorable “half”-kids (half Western, half Japanese) just to toss their foreign guy later on.For some guys it really gets to their heads and they start bragging about it like crazy as part of the superstar syndrome.