I don't believe I should be selling myself like a brand, and I don't believe it is even ethical for me, or anyone, to search through hundreds of profiles as if they were trading cards with different stats for strength, beauty, and intelligence, and then pick out what you want. A marketplace for a "special someone" is an extremely twisted idea IMHO.To say it's not a marketplace would be to tell me "just be yourself and replies will pour in", that is NOT the case here. It's either that we don't know how to write a profile, or don't know how to write a message, or that we just take bad profile pics. It's either that we don't know how to write a profile, or don't know how to write a message, or that we just take bad profile pics.I also put up another good picture where I'm smiling.
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This won't appeal to all, maybe some or maybe majority of women on dating sites, I don't know.
But I know it won't appeal to me, if I was a girl on a dating site looking for someone to date.
It's like I could be telling you I put up a picture of sliced ham as my only picture, and you'd be saying "that's not the problem," etc. Stick to offline, let them get to know the real you. Do you have to get ripped and take your shirt off for dating success?
No, I mean there is an abundance of wang so you are always thrown into a competition which can seriously damage your self-esteem, and for what? No..I guarantee that it would help...a lot, and anybody (woman or man) who says any different is lying to you through their teeth/keyboard.
And the statistics say that most of those white men are looking to date someone who “share their racial background.” That means that, for the most part, black women’s profiles are passed by.
If OKCupid’s studies are anything to go by, black men gave black women the cold shoulder too and vice versa.So I have reason to believe I'm half-decent looking and the photos are good enough. Several times girls in real life have indicated they thought I was attractive. Without assuming what I'm looking for, what's wrong with a quick tap in your opinion?So I could say these women online and in real life were truthful, which is what I usually believe (although now I'm re-evaluating that.) Or I could say they were You don't mean I have to be ripped with my shirt off to get anywhere, do you? Would it make me to shallow if I said that's fine with me? And by "you" I mean people in general - not you specifically.in the future, when someone is shy or a loser, it's a better idea that you tell these "shy loser guys" just to give up and stare at the wall.. Also, in reference to someone's earlier post about guys suggesting that he bulk up and take a pic with his shirt off... It's either that we don't know how to write a profile, or don't know how to write a message, or that we just take bad profile pics.Please don't - I doesn't send a very good message IMO. The first thing I thought when I read this was, I love myself so much that I am well acquainted with Rosy Palms. I've seen lots of guys stressing over not getting dates on POF, and when I look at their profile pic, I can see why. The exact profile pic I put up there, personally I consider to be one of my better ones.I think a lot of women will agree with me on that.women on there? It's almost as if women are concerned that if they said what's wrong with me, it would confirm stereotypical views about what women want, and that's an area that's so controversial it must be avoided at all times. Girls are just offering *nothing* at all about what I should be doing differently. Props for not wanting to treat women like products in a catalogue.