Gut feelings are well and good, but it’s better to trust your intuition instead. Also, many women think that men aren’t very verbally communicative.Therefore many women resort to using provacative body language to gain a man’s attention which gives off the wrong impression. Looks may be most obvious way to get the train started, but it’s hardly the best way.
As it stands I am 25 years old, a virgin who has never had any positive experience with women on any level-be it friends or anything beyond that.
I have never had any physical relations with women, nor anything tangible save for small-talk which invariably ends awkwardly and it seems increasingly less likely.
Sadly, this gut feeling doesn’t exactly translate to a deep connection with him.
In other words, trying to change him is like trying to teach a pig to sing – it wastes time, it doesn’t work, and it annoys the pig. Women tend to think that men only care about an attractive physical appearance.
Each small interaction builds a person’s social calibration. I don’t feel normal or accepted the fact that women these days only go for looks and high status all in one.
So, if you’re acting awkward around other people it’s because you’re not comfortable around other people. If you want to be good with women you must be good with EVERYONE. You can learn this stuff now while you’re still young, or you can learn it when you’re 40 and finally p*ssed off enough to do something about it. I’m very shy around them because they don’t find me decent looking (fact) but I try to make eye contact when a random woman that walks by but nobody ever makes eye contact. A man can’t have respect for a woman that isn’t confident of who she is. Almost all successful,physically attractive, and single guys have healthy disabled dating lives.Acting like a prostitute or a slave won’t get you anywhere. So women who raise the most red flags are the ones that give too much information on the second or third date.The smartest thing to do would be to ease up and let the relationship mature on it’s own. The signs give clues on how ready he is to go further in your relationship.BY watching him closely and accurately judging what he says, you may find out where he is coming from.While I can’t be a miracle worker this area I can provide some very common mistakes that women tend to make.